how are you? November 15, 2007

“How are you?” It’s a simple question… well, most of the time. But do people really mean it? Now don’t get me wrong… I know that some do, especially those who truly care about your well-being. But for the most part, it’s just an extension of “hello.” Most of the time, it’s just like that line in Fight Club… about how people don’t really listen , they just wait for their turn to talk. I’ve really started to notice this lately. I’ve been going through a rought spot emotionally. And I’ve noticed one of two things… a) people want to tell me how much worse things are for them (or for someone else that they know)… or b) people want to tell me their opinion about the situation and dispense advice on what they think I should do. I think I’ve heard it all the past few weeks… everything from play the game to I should go to counseling. I’m sure people mean well. But enough is enough. I don’t really need all that. The friends that know me best… are just listening… and that’s exactly what I need right now.